Sometimes i wonder, why life now just comes in and out like it's just for a few seconds, i still remember the good old times. my elementary and high school days, no problems at all just plain having fun like there's no tomorrow. Unlike now time moves a lot faster and more and more you have things to worry about. Well i guess in my own opinion maybe as we get older, we mature and know the importance of life, maybe when we get older we know what we need and must be done, everything must be in order, everything must be finished on time, we must work harder, because we need more things, we cannot satisfy what we want, we do not know what we want. Well i think most of us not everyone but most of us are really not that satisfied anymore, sometimes we don't notice that we are already working so hard we neglect little important things in our life, we even forget someone who needs greeting every morning and needs to be given thanks every morning, and that special someone is GOD, we just pass by the church not even giving atleast one hour to pray and give thanks, and running on your mind is i'm too busy GOD will understand, you really think so? Have you even noticed that your already getting enough (Food, Shelter, Car, New Cellphone, ETC), earning enough because of GOD? and what have you given in return? Really think about it, you even sometimes neglect your parents, you have no time to talk to them, be with them on dinner, hug or kiss them, think have you done this lately? If not do so now, we even sometimes neglect your children, when was the last time you had a conversation with each other? have you asked them how's school? or what's your dream, what do you want to be when you grow old? or even as simple as do you want to go on the park on Sunday?
The matter is as we grow old, we really don't mature that much, as we grow older we tend to argue more, we tend to be more greedy, we are not that much satisfied anymore, i mean look at the children, give them time with their friends what do they do? they play they talk, yeah they fight but after a few minutes they're friends again, they are satisfied with the company of friends, they don't need to be cool to be with their friends, and they're satisfied with something that their parents give, it's something called LOVE, this is the missing link in every relationship may it be for GOD, our parents, children, friends and relatives, it's this simple thing called LOVE.
There are some things which makes us unhealthy spiritually and physically and here are some:
PRIDE: having this in a sense that you need to honour or respect somebody is good, but having this in a way that you feel conscious that they'll laugh at you if you feel doing something you know is right but, what you care is on what others people think, then you are lying to yourself by doing something just to impress others and making you feel really bad, that's not healthy at all which brings you to feel Worried.
WORRY: this is the main reason we don't feel good, because of this we tend to focus on a problem instead of thinking of a solution, example: why do i need to do this paper work, it's so many i cannot finish this on time or so many orders so many customers, i cannot do this anymore, instead of finding solutions we focus on the problem, not healthy at all worry sometimes makes us always feel angry.
ANGER: an attitude which defocuses us on what we really need to do, this kind of attitude always dwells on the past, not knowing on how to move on, instead of doing something to find a solution now (present) to make a better future, we sometimes choose anger and just dwell on the past, this kind of attitude and feeling makes people not to succeed, because instead of looking forward they keep on looking backward, which sometimes makes us to be greedy.
GREED: because of anger we become greedy, we feel like the competition has gone high stakes, doing whats necessary, we need to do something even becoming selfish just to feel good inside, but really deep inside we are not contented, we still get angry it comes to a cycle.
EXAMPLE: our PRIDE: comes back i think he's still laughing at me, then we get WORRIED: i need to do something if not they'll really laugh at me i don't want that, then comes ANGER: you think of taking me as a fool? i'm not that, i'm much better than you you'll see, then back to GREED: see i won, i'll take everything from you even if i need to stop you from succeeding.
So a little thing to keep in mind, that we don't forget GOD and our loved ones, and don't forget to LOVE.
We grow old, we mature, we'll have responsibilities. But remember to be a child at heart. Godbless.